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Children & Family Hair Care

Helping children learn to wash their hair starts with a gentle touch

The first few solo hair washes may take a little practice. With a parent nearby and gentle reminders, children can gradually find a routine that works for them.

A little preparation makes washing easier

Thoroughly wet the hair and scalp with warm water. Put the amount of shampoo recommended on the label into the palm. Parents can help with the amount at first, so there is no accidental shampoo flood.

Adjust washing frequency to age, hair type, sweating and activity. If a doctor has prescribed a washing routine, follow that advice.

Reference: American Academy of Dermatology: Healthy Hair Habits for Children

Wash gently with your fingertips

Help your child practise gently massaging the scalp with the pads of their fingers, working from front to back. There is no need to scratch with nails, scrub hard or bunch long hair into a tangled pile.

If your child feels itchy, pause and ask where it is uncomfortable. Harder scratching can damage the skin. Keeping nails short and smooth can also reduce scratches.

Reference: American Academy of Dermatology: Healthy Hair Habits for Children

Take time to rinse the easy-to-miss spots

Rinse slowly with warm water, gently separating thicker sections. Check the back of the head, behind the ears and around the hairline until no foam remains. Shampoo left behind can sometimes cause dryness, itching or flaking.

When children first wash their own hair, a parent can help with a final rinse check. Afterwards, gently blot with a towel rather than rubbing hard.

  • Wet the hair and scalp thoroughly first
  • Put shampoo in the palm, then cleanse gently
  • Massage with finger pads, not fingernails
  • Rinse the back of the head, behind the ears and the hairline carefully

Reference: American Academy of Dermatology: Healthy Hair Habits for Children

What if the scalp still itches after washing?

Consider whether a new product was introduced, rinsing was incomplete, or discomfort happens after using a particular product. If irritation is suspected, stop using that product and keep its details for advice.

If itching persists, redness or swelling keeps returning, or patches of hair fall out, ask a doctor to assess the cause before planning everyday care.

References: American Academy of Dermatology: Common Causes of an Itchy Scalp · American Academy of Dermatology: Everyday Eczema Care

Parents and children can learn together

Start with one small goal: a gentler touch today, a thorough rinse next time. Lavender Hair welcomes children aged 6 and above for scalp care. Our senior therapists explain each step so children know what comes next and can gradually feel at ease. Parents are welcome to ask about care and accompanying their child before visiting.

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